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| WATCH OUT: SELF-BULLYING!
Hi, Friends!
Did you know SELF-BULLYING?
It's such a personal disorder. :o
We've known that bullying can hurt people. Yes, it's so true. For example, once upon a time, at a High School, there were 3 popular seniors. And then, they felt so jealous to their junior (i.e named X). Because of that, then they bullied X and since that time, X has been afraid to the seniors.
For the example above, we know that people are the enemy and the bullying-victim. But, maybe all of you didn't know that... OURSELVES can be THE NUMBER ONE ENEMY who can hurt our BODY or SOUL. And it means that bullying could happen to us because of... OURSELVES. Not only because of other.
Believe or not???
In my opinion, bullying is not only to other. But, it's also could happen to ourselves.
And these are the symptoms of self-bullying (taken from a magazine):
· When you can't reach our dream (i.e you wanna get the best mark for a test), then you said, "I'm fool! Suck and stupid!”
· When you stare at your reflection in the mirror, you always like to think the worst things about yourself. For example, 'ur gloomy-face, 'ur black-skin, 'ur big arms, and so on. And then you said, "Ah, my body is so suck. I don't like my hair–cause it looks like a mess."
· You won't go to–for example–a birthday party, chit-chat with other, because we feel so "bad" or "less" than other.
· You're so ashamed about all things about yourself, i.e your family, your very-unusual mark in some subjects at school, your badness, your geek-hobby, and so on. And last, you'd like to change about yourself and then... you wanna be somebody else.
· You always wanna be somebody else and won't wanna be yourself.
· Sometimes you punished yourself with some things that can hurt yourself. Example, you won't eat all day long... :O
· You often critic about yourself. And last, some things that you have done look so FALSE on your mind. As usual, it can make you feel so stress and you cry, cry and cry...
See? So dangerous, right? If the self-bullying constantly is in yourself, you should consult it with your parents or a counselor. They can give some advices for your problem(s)... J
From those symptoms of self-bullying above, I ever had some of them.
Example, the 1st and 2nd point above... I ever persuaded myself that I didn't do my exam, and at this time I felt so suck. :o
But Guys, we know that we are unique and special, it's true! If you doubt it, look at yourself. Maybe you have some badness, but you must know that you have talent(s) too. You know that you have yourself. And yeah, it's a special gift from God. Therefore, you must learn to love yourself. Sometimes we feel so suck about ourselves, and me too... But I still remember this quote, "Live your life with love yourself. That's more than enough." Although sometimes we feel so suck about ourselves, we know that in ourselves there's a talent. Increase it and show it to other. If you shy to show it, you have to read this quote, "Nobody knows your talents until you show them."
Last but not least, don't hurt yourself. I'd rather love myself than hurt. The more you hurt yourself, the less you feel your self-confidence. Let's love ourselves, and live our dreams! :D
Quote:
"It's okay to be different. You have to be unique, different, and shine in your own way." –Lady Gaga
"God have blessed us with our fabulous-self." –made by me :D
"I have to believe in myself, is the only way." –Demi Lovato
Picture that I grab for my senior's Fb (Kak Wina) :D
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